Community Guidelines
Building a safe space for night owls to connect, one conversation at a time.
Last updated: December 1, 2025
Our Philosophy
Night Owl exists because we believe everyone deserves a place to be themselves, especially during those quiet hours when the rest of the world is asleep. Our community is built on empathy, authenticity, and mutual respect. These guidelines help us maintain that safe space for everyone.
The Golden Rules
Be Kind
Remember there's a real person on the other side of every conversation. Treat them how you'd want to be treated at 3am when you're feeling vulnerable.
Be Authentic
You don't need to share your real name, but be genuine in your interactions. Fake personas and catfishing have no place here.
Be Respectful
Respect boundaries, consent, and differences. Not everyone thinks like you, and that's what makes conversations interesting.
Be Supportive
Many people come here during difficult moments. A little kindness can go a long way. If someone's struggling, be there for them.
What's Not Allowed
The following behaviors will result in immediate action, including potential permanent bans:
Conversation Guidelines
In Private Chats
- • Always ask before sharing explicit content
- • Respect when someone wants to end a conversation
- • Don't pressure anyone to share personal information
- • Report any concerning behavior immediately
In Audio Lounges
- • Wait your turn to speak—don't interrupt
- • Keep the conversation on topic
- • Be mindful of background noise
- • Respect the room moderators
In Thoughts Feed
- • Share authentically, but consider the impact
- • Add content warnings for sensitive topics
- • Engage constructively with others' thoughts
- • Don't use it for self-promotion
Reporting & Enforcement
How to Report
If you encounter behavior that violates these guidelines:
- 1. Tap the three dots on any message, profile, or thought
- 2. Select "Report"
- 3. Choose the reason and add any details
- 4. Our team will review within 24 hours
All reports are confidential. The reported user won't know who reported them.
What Happens When Rules Are Broken
Warning
First-time minor violations result in a warning and content removal.
Temporary Suspension
Repeated violations or moderate offenses lead to 24-72 hour suspensions.
Permanent Ban
Serious violations or repeated offenses result in permanent account removal.
Legal Action
Illegal activities will be reported to appropriate authorities.
A Note on Mental Health
Many night owls come here during difficult moments. While we encourage supportive conversations, Night Owl is not a substitute for professional help.
If you or someone you're talking to is in crisis, please reach out to a mental health professional or crisis hotline. In the US, you can text HOME to 741741 or call 988.
Questions?
Have questions about our community guidelines? We're here to help:
community@nightowl.app